Slumber Parties & Sleepovers that transform into magical nights to remember.
Detective mysteries, enchanted forests, spa nights, gaming challenges and 16 more. Each one a complete experience, so you're never left wondering what to do next.
You tell us about them. We do the rest.
$147 per experience
Built for one to eight children.
Saying yes to the sleepover is the easy part.
Inventing & hosting it is not.
Planning a themed night means inventing the activities, the timings, the food and a running order that holds the attention of children for fourteen hours.
Making it feel like one magical night — rather than a few good moments strung together — is where it gets hard.
Children describe these nights for years afterwards. It's worth the night holding together.
Everything that could go wrong has already been thought about.
You will never be standing in the kitchen at 9pm wondering what to do with them next.
When someone wants to go home at 11pm, you already know what to say.
You will know about every allergy before the first guest walks in — not when someone is already holding the cupcake.
No awkward message to another parent asking whether you can post the photo.
The child who needs ten minutes away from the noise has somewhere to go, and does not have to explain why.
The night has room to breathe. Nobody is herded from one thing to the next.
The quiet one gets called up too, for being exactly who they are.
If something does not suit your family, you can change the wording yourself.
The eight-year-old is not bored, and the twelve-year-old is not talked down to.
Short on time? There is a shorter version of the night that still lands.
What makes it different.
Complete chronological Host Guide
Up to six thoughtfully selected activities
Signature 8:30 Mystery Mission
Sleepover Passport
Experience Cards
Selfie Station and Photo Challenge
Achievements and keepsakes
Food ideas, labels, and station signs
Editable and blank versions where useful
The moment the room goes quiet.
Every experience builds towards one sealed envelope that nobody is allowed to open until half past eight. The lamps go low. Someone turns the big light off without being asked. The child whose night it is holds the envelope, and everybody else stops moving.
Then it opens, and six children lean over one page at the same time. For about twenty seconds nobody says anything at all. That is the part they describe to their teacher on Monday, and the part you will still be able to picture in ten years.
A plan for the whole night, not a pile of files.
Before the party
- Invitation
- Packing information
- Shopping and supply help
- Setup guidance
- Food planning
During the party
- Full schedule
- Activities
- Experience Cards
- Mystery Mission
- Passport
- Photo experiences
- Parent troubleshooting
Morning and after
- Breakfast plan
- Pack-up and pickup
- Keepsakes
- Thank-you materials
- Cleanup reminders
From the first invitation to the last goodbye at pickup, the night is planned end to end — you get to be at the party instead of running it.
How it works
Choose the experience
Pick the kind of night that sounds like them.
Tell us about them
A short, friendly questionnaire about the child (or children), their guests and how the night should feel.
Their letter, then their night
Within 24 hours we email you a personalized letter to print and give them; the full night follows within 7 days.
Nothing exists until you order it — the whole night is written around your child, then emailed to you to print at home. Your 7 days begin when your details arrive, since that is when we start building the night.
We have hosted the 9pm silence too.
We started this because we kept watching lovely, generous hosts spend the night on their feet — inventing the next thing, refereeing the one that went wrong, and missing the bit they had actually been looking forward to. Writing the night in advance is the only thing that fixes that. So we write it, for one child, by name, and you get to be in the room for it.
If we get it wrong, you do not pay.
Full refund any time before your child's letter goes out.
If we miss our delivery window, you get a full refund and we send you the finished experience anyway.
One correction round included — a misspelled name, a wrong age, a date that changed.
Full policy is at /refunds.
Start with the kind of night you want them to have.
Every experience is a full night written around one child — their name, their friends, the way they play. See all 20 experiences →
Junior Detective Mystery
Evidence on the table, suspects to interview and a case that only this group of detectives can close.
Retro Arcade Adventure
A whole night of levels, power-ups and high scores, with your child's name at the top of the leaderboard.
Enchanted Forest Adventure
A moonlit woodland unfolds indoors, with hidden messages, gentle creatures and glowing trails to follow.
Sweet Shop Baking Night
Decorating challenges, tasting cards and a dessert display the guests built entirely themselves.
Fairy Garden Sleepover
Tiny treasures, wishes to write and fairy missions to finish before the last light goes out.
Best Friends Memory Night
Conversation cards, photo prompts and memory pages that send everyone home with something to keep.
How the night actually goes.
The guests arrive and something is already waiting for each of them, with their own name on it. The first hour looks after itself. When the energy climbs too high you know exactly what comes next, and when it drops you know that too. Nobody asks what you are doing later, because everyone can feel that the night is going somewhere.
By half past eight the room is quiet and leaning over one page. By midnight they are whispering about the bit that surprised them. And you are on the sofa with them, watching it happen — in the room, rather than in the kitchen inventing the next thing.
A night built from a dozen browser tabs will still be a good night — children are generous like that. It is just harder to make it feel like one story rather than a run of separate ideas, and the person who assembled it usually ends up running the evening instead of being in it. That is the only real difference.
Who this is for
For parents
A memorable party without having to invent every activity, sign, snack idea, schedule, and surprise yourself. You get to be in the room enjoying it, instead of in the kitchen inventing the next thing.
For grandparents
A meaningful way to turn a weekend visit, birthday celebration, cousin sleepover, or special overnight into a memory they will always associate with you.
- Birthday sleepovers
- Best-friend nights
- Cousin sleepovers
- Grandparent weekends
- School-break celebrations
- Just-because memory nights
- Milestone moments
- Small-group parties
A little colorful chaos, a lot of joy.
Party & Pillow began around an idea to make party planning simple for parents, and one very purple vase full of flowers. We create personalized experiences for kids who want their sleepovers to feel like a party, and for parents who want it easy.
See the experiencesPlanning, night by night.
Not fifty-item lists. Two real plans for the shape of the night — whether you’re hosting a casual sleepover or a themed slumber party — with named games, snacks and movies for the age you’re hosting.
- SleepoversThings to Do at Sleepovers
A real plan for a casual night: arrival, high-energy block, snacks, wind-down — with named games, snacks and movies by age.
Read the sleepover plan →- Games
- Truth or Dare
- Snacks
- Movies
- Pranks
- Slumber partiesSlumber Party Things to Do
A themed, planned night — invitations, decor, games, snacks, movie and wind-down, from setup to lights-out.
Read the slumber party plan →- Games
- Invites & Decor
- Movies
- For Teens
- Snacks
- Pranks
Questions parents ask
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Be at the party instead of running it.
$147 per experience. Their letter is emailed to you within 24 hours of your details arriving. Your full experience is delivered within 7 days of receiving your details. Your 7 days begin when your details arrive, since that is when we start building the night.
Choose Their ExperienceChanged your mind before their letter goes out? See our refund policy.